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WRITTEN BY GRACE THEISEN
I love winter. I love winter activities like skiing and snowshoeing. I love going to the cabin, cuddling up under a blanket next to a fire and reading a good book. But even winter can be a hectic time of year. Recently, my life has been hectic. I have had a hard time keeping balanced—my faith, family, friends, school, and boyfriend (“Hi, Logan”)—and still having time for myself.
In the cold of winter, wrapped up in a blanket, I took the time to write myself a few life lessons about loving myself:
1. Don’t get caught up in trying to make everyone else happy. Of course, I should and will do things for others. But if things are not received well, I will not put it on myself. I’ll keep doing what is right and let them accept it as they might.
2. School, sports, and other extra curriculars can be a lot. Do not procrastinate. Plan ahead. Make time for yourself a priority.
3. Do not overlook the easiest way on earth to reduce stress. Stop. Count to ten. And say a prayer. (Actually, is that the easiest way on earth or the easiest way on Heaven and earth?)
4. Finally, and probably most importantly, love others. I am overwhelmed by all the people around me who love me and are there to help me succeed and live a great life. Don’t forget to let these people know how much their love and support means to you. I am better because of them, and hopefully, they are better because of me.
So right now, I’m not going to worry about making anyone else happy. I’m going to prepare myself a cup of hot chocolate and make myself the priority. I’m going to curl up deeply into this warm blanket and say a little prayer to thank God for all the love in my life. Spring sounds good, but it can wait.
