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Rays Of Grace – April/May 2020
God has blessed me with many role models in my twenty years. Recently, I have discovered a role model that I never would have thought that I had. I have come to look up to (both literally and figuratively) my younger brother Henry. (Note that I describe him as my younger and not my little brother.)
Henry and I are only two years apart, so growing up, we were often at each other’s throats. I remember, at times, being so jealous of how effortlessly intelligent and athletic he was (Still is!) And if there is one person who knows how to push my buttons, Hank Theisen would be the guy! However, Henry is also someone who I know will always be there to stand up for me. He will always have my back–the most loyal young man I know. Henry is a person who might not always show his emotions, but makes me feel loved just by being around. He listens deeply, contemplates carefully and responds thoughtfully.
Hen has a particular eloquence when he speaks (even if he is calling someone out or challenging an idea — which he will do.) People quickly figure out that it is hard to argue with this kid because when he speaks, he means what he is saying. His confidence and the way he thinks through things is something most adults do not have the ability to do. If he questions something, he will research it until he completely understands it. He has the best work ethic out of anyone I know (which is saying a lot because I have a lot of pre-med friends!!). I have seen much growth in Henry over the past two years, and I am confident that he will continue to grow as he heads off to college next fall.
To Henry:
Hen, I want you to know that these next four years are going to be hard. People will tell you that college was the best four years of their life. This statement might be true, but people will fail to say how hard and confusing these years will be. You will feel lost at times. You will be leaving your family, your friends, your home. Life will never be the same (someone might even steal your bedroom, but you wouldn’t know anything about that, would you?? ;) ). Your classes are going to kick your butt at times. You are going to be sleep-deprived and stressed. The food? Well, let’s just say it will not compare to mom’s organic, gluten-free cooking. I do not mean to overwhelm you. I am confident you are ready for this journey. You are going to learn so much about life and yourself in these years. You will meet some of the world’s most amazing people. Remember that you always have your big sister who will only be a phone call away to hear about your good days as well as your bad days. I’ll always be a listening ear, your friend, and second-biggest cheerleader (I’ll let mom be the first).
When I think of where you were two years ago to where you are today, I am at a loss for words. I could say I am proud, but that does not do it justice. You are mature beyond your years. You have made so many sacrifices to become the best version of yourself. You push yourself, love hard, and are kind to others. Hen, I don’t know where life is going to take you, but I know you are going to do amazing things with the skills you already have and the skills you will continue to develop. Any school will be lucky to have you and the impact you will make will be great. Anyone will be lucky to gain you as a friend and confidant. Hen, don’t let this hype ya up too much. I am still the big sister, and I know how to push your buttons right back. To the moon and back.
